I notice more and more that teenagers and young adults lack manners. Now, I’m not talking formal manners just everyday manners. Basic manners that are common knowledge—or at least I thought they were. This blog is dictated to basic manners…leave the formal stuff to high-society and royalty, most of us will never be in the position to use such etiquette. The etiquette on this bog is for everyday use. I’ll make it fast and to the point. If you have questions just ask. I’ll add a SHOW OFF section every now and again just in case there are those of you who really want to look cool and impress the people you are with (for date night or more formal situations). ROMEO: is for the men who want to be gentlemen and JULIET: is for the women who want to be ladies. So moms, dads, grandparents, and teachers bookmark this blog and share it with the kids in your life and watch their self-confidence soar as they learn some Marginal Manners.

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Napkins


I start off with napkins simply because they are everywhere we go and there’s a reason.


(This guy caught my attention…any you know why. Well done!)


When eating—I don’t care where you are… at home, at a friend’s, Taco Bell, Pizza Hut, the Costco food court, Olive Garden, or at a 5 star restaurant. ALWAYS, put your napkin in your lap. It makes no difference if it is paper or cloth. The minute you sit, open the napkin and place it in your lap. Trust me, after a few times it will become second nature.

*Unless you’re in Italy NEVER tuck it in you’re the collar of your shirt!

SHOW OFF: If you must leave— to go to the bathroom, answer your phone, or simply get away from the annoying people at the table, when you stand up place your napkin in your seat. Make sure you don’t sit on it when you return to the table.
Funny True Story: About a week ago, when out to dinner with friends, I told their son, who is about ten, to put his napkin in his lap. This is how it went…
“Why don’t you put your napkin in your lap,” I suggested.
“Why?” The boy asked without being rude.
“Because it shows good manners and it will also keep your lap clean.”
The boy smiled and set his napkin his lap.
Fast forward about 30 minutes into the meal. The boy tried to balance a huge lump of mashed potatoes on his fork, before it reached his mouth half of it fell into his lap.
The boy looked over at me very excited and said, “Look my napkin caught all of it. Sweet!”
Voilà…this my friends is why we use napkins.

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